Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions
I did not realize, until after this week's topic of microaggression, that my friend and I take part in this action every time we are around each other. We make "silly" comments about where we live and our economic status, me being the "rich" girl from a wealthy neighborhood and she being the "poor" girl from the barrio. We have always viewed it as joking around, but now it has made me think, are we just joking or is there an underlying insult message??? I believe we have never meant to hurt the other's feelings. However, I can see now how an outsider who overhears us may take it differently. I can also understand how the repetitiveness of these jokes can cause harm to either one of us and/or both of us, with neither ever questioning the issue of what is the other trying to insinuate? I am trying to wrap my head around the fact that I unknowingly participated in microaggression. I cannot believe that my joking around with a frien